I did not mean to insult you in the least and I apologize if I did so. But I do think you are taking the vain comment the wrong way. All vain means to me is that you're obsessed with your appearance. The amount of time spent in the gym and on your diet combined with taking suppliments and drugs in some cases, shows an obsession with appearance, IMO. I didn't intend to come across as if all bodybuilders are arrogant and cocky. I don't believe the two are necessarily connected. It's one thing to be obsessed with appearance, its another to tie that to your view of someones worth as a person.
I have known a few bodybuilders, and you're right. The few I've gotten to know (not really well mind you) seem like good people. They are certainly hard working and dedicated to what they do. I never felt like they looked down on me or anything. But that doesn't change my view on their personality, I do believe that. And I still don't feel sorry for anyone who ingests anything dangerous like steroids or drugs of any kind with all the easy access to information out there today.
I guess we have to agree to disagree.
"He is strong who conquers others, he who conquers himself is mighty" -Lao Tzu