Be like water making its way through cracks. Do not be assertive, but adjust to the object, and you shall find a way round or through it. If nothing within you stays rigid, outward things will disclose themselves.
Empty your mind, be formless. Shapeless, like water. If you put water into a cup, it becomes the cup. You put water into a bottle and it becomes the bottle. You put it in a teapot it becomes the teapot. Now, water can flow or it can crash. Be water my friend.
When in doubt; quote the Bruce!
Only advice i can offer is to video the fight so we can all see how it goes down. Oh and if you lose, you're outta the family. No pressure or nothin, just saying.