At the elite level if you think a 135# cast member would walk through Rousey just because he's a male. climb out from behind your bush.
Some of the best coaches can't do it but can teach you better than someone who can.
I've worked with some bad ass women before pound for pound nothing less than a man. A few also introduced me to there wives.lol.
Look at what someone can do over not do and life will be better.