How I feel exactly. Well saidI will address you but I absolutely will not go further than saying the following:
This is a community. Built by people with similar interests. Many of us have come here to share our information and opinions as well as learn from others who may have insight we do not. Relationships are formed. Friendships if you may.
When the group left for the spot, we pulled it together and remained committed to one another as well as the site. We tried to make it better. Some of us have taken substantial time out of our lives to make it better for YOU. Sakara and cat spoon feed you news so you don't have to look. The mods attempt to minimize the absurdity and spam. We are a family here.
I can't make you see things as I do. I don't even want you to as I actually appreciate the differences in people.
If you don't recognize the impact of losing two guys (plus others) who have not only the mma knowledge and historic reference points as well as the life experiences of guys like rivet and Ramma then I honestly can't help you.
If they stick around and still engage in discussions, then no biggie. If they are out as they said, it makes the site a little less knowledgeable.
If you are able, I think it would help YOU personally if you would take a look at the relationship between how you conduct yourself and how it effects others' contributions. I am not taking a swing at you but I think you would see a correlation. I have done the same self-reflection recently as well.